Episode 99

Transformative Listening: A Path to Deeper Relationships with Candy Motzek

What if the key to transforming our relationships was as simple as truly listening?

Candy Motzek, a celebrated coach known for her thought-provoking insights, unravels this very idea in our enlightening conversation. Together, we delve into the three levels of listening, from the surface level to a holistic approach that encompasses words, body language, pace, and the gaps in between. Truly listening is not just about hearing the words; it's about completely immersing ourselves in the conversation and giving it our complete focus.

Candy and I also dig deep into how listening can be a profound act of love. We explore the significance of shifting from self-focused thoughts to actively listening and the profound impact of non-verbal cues, especially in today's digital world where traditional physical cues are not as obvious. We discuss the essence of making eye contact, acknowledging the speaker, and validating their feelings, all of which culminate in creating a safe, non-judgmental space and fostering trust.

Join us in our journey as we explore how listening, an often underestimated skill, can make a profound difference in our relationships and lives. The power of listening lies not just in understanding what's being said but in connecting with others on a deeper level, and this episode truly brings that to light.

About Our Guest:

Candy Motzek is an author, podcast host , and business coach for life coaches.

Candy helps smart people start successful coaching businesses. She believes that coaching transforms lives and that being a coach is a calling. She helps her clients get unstuck & feel more confidence and clarity so they can play bigger, sign clients & create more meaningful success. She is a 'recovering' corporate executive & engineer who combines practical strategy & mindset in her calming unique approach.

https://stepintosuccessnow.com/

https://www.facebook.com/CoachCandyM

https://www.instagram.com/candymotzek/

https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/she-coaches-coaches/id1527473940

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Heather Hester is the founder of Chrysalis Mama which provides support and education to parents and allies of LGBTQIA adolescents, teenagers, and young adults. She is also the creator/host of the Top 1% podcast Just Breathe: Parenting your LGBTQ Teen. As an advocate and coach, she believes the coming out process is equal parts beautiful and messy. She works with her clients to let go of fear and feelings of isolation so that they can reconnect with themselves and their children with awareness and compassion. Heather also works within organizations via specialized programming to bring education and empowerment with a human touch. She is delighted to announce that her first book is out in the world as of May 2024 - Parenting with Pride: Unlearn Bias and Embrace, Empower, and Love Your LGBTQ+ Teen. Married to the funniest guy she’s ever known and the mother of four extraordinary kids (two of whom are LGBTQ) and one sassy mini bernedoodle, Heather believes in being authentic and embracing the messiness. You can almost always find her with a cup coffee nearby whether she’s at her computer, on her yoga mat, or listening to her favorite music.